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“The moment one is convinced that “I am right” in an interpersonal relationship, one has already stepped into a power struggle” Because in your mind, you are no longer looking at the other as an equal, but as an inferior. Excerpt From: Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga. “The Courage to
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“In every instance, no matter how much you might think you are right, try not to criticize the other party on that basis” If you assert your “right”-ness, you will force the situation into a power struggle. Excerpt From: Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga. “The Courage to Be Disliked.
Autism
“Divert your gaze from the world of lies. Do not trust your feelings. Only in yourself, only in your impersonal self, can you find the eternal.” This one made me pause and think. Are your feelings part of the external world of lies? As someone who has trouble reading and
Gaming
In the yawning emptiness at the heart of Hogwarts Legacy I see the quiet solidarity of queer people and our allies in game development. The people who just said no when the job offers came their way. The ones who didn’t answer the emails from Portkey Games, the ones
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My Stuff
I originally captured this because something I’m really struggling with right now is feeling the urge to do something but also just not wanting to think about things anymore. * Throw things away. There’s no better feeling. This can applied anywhere and is especially useful in the home. * Do
My Stuff
What were your parents doing at your age? Gettin’ divorced. Apparently their marriage ran into trouble sometime after my brother and I were born. My father disappeared into his job, leaving early in the morning and coming home late at night, which apparently facilitated years of affairs. My mother focused
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“This is a friend relationship in a broader sense, away from work, as there is none of the compulsion of the workplace. It is a relationship that is difficult to initiate or deepen.” When you don’t work, or you don’t like your co-workers, and you don’t have
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“Are you saying that they don’t try to work simply because they want to avoid the interpersonal relationships that are associated with work, not that they don’t want to work or that they’re refusing to do manual labor?” This is interesting because this was me when I
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“However, considered from the viewpoint of distance and depth, interpersonal relationships of work may be said to have the lowest hurdles. Interpersonal relationships of work have the easy-to-understand common objective of obtaining good results, so people can cooperate even if they don’t always get along, and to some extent
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“Adler made three categories of the interpersonal relationships that arise out of these processes. He referred to them as “tasks of work,” “tasks of friendship,” and “tasks of love,” and all together as “life tasks.” The three categories of Life Tasks: tasks of work; tasks of friendship; tasks of love.
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It was a pretty good day.