Not What, But How

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“The question isn’t “What happened?” but “How was it resolved?”

I’ve been spending a lot of time spelunking in the past lately, trying to recover memories before they fade away. But I haven’t been reflecting on it in this way. I was looking at the “what”, and so looking into the past was becoming a painful exercise. I think looking more at how, or if, things were resolved will be a lot healthier.


Excerpt From: Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga. “The Courage to Be Disliked.” Atria, 2018-05-08. Apple Books.