Friend Zone
“apparent cause and effect.” That is to say, you convince yourself that there is some serious causal relationship where there is none whatsoever”
You believe something to be true, you start looking for things to confirm your belief, but what you are observing is a casual relationship and you haven’t actually determined any real cause and effect.
Excerpt From: Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga. “The Courage to Be Disliked.” Atria, 2018-05-08. Apple Books.